hey there,

People have said do modeling too me and i thinking no i couldn't...could i? I'm so confused..  Dont ya need confidence to do this work .lol ..which i dont have 90% of the time....i wonder can you learn to be confident? ..im not sure you can

I don't know if you would call it learning but you can train to become confident. Its a two way mechanism, you need to be mentally confident and physically confident as the body is an easy give away of how confident someone is.

Most confidence (or lack of) is built on previous success (or failure).

Most people with little or no confidence are self consciously stopping themselves from building confidence because they usually think bad things happen to them or it never works out etc.

So step one is to think today....

'If someone else can do it, so CAN I.'

Lesson over.

B

Aaargh I hate posts like this in modelling forums. Why can't you just become a model BECAUSE YOU WANT TO instead of people telling you to. People will tell you your whole life you should do all sorts of things......while this may give you ideas/confidence/inspiration, it does not mean you have to, or even should do what they tell you to do. Do what interests you, not what some random girl who thinks you're cute thinks you should do.

And now back to your question. Absolutely, one can learn to be more confident.

Rgds,

Lolo.

Course you can fake it! believe in youself

I'm confident becuase of all the people that thought i was vain becuase they considered me pretty, all the people that were jealous and all the people that told me i could never do things i wanted to. I take all those thoughts and put them into sumthing positive and stand up and say i bloody well can do it!

 (and i signed my first modelling contract last week)haha

yay! 

Hey Morry,

It is important never to have regrets for NOT doing something - always give it a go.

If you try modelling and its not for you - what has it cost you?

If you dont try and regret it thats a far higher price to pay.

Anyway its like french kissing an elephant ! Sounds dodgy but you might like it !